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38 Weeks |
My partner (now my
husband) and I were very surprised and yet excited to find out that we were
pregnant with our son Henry. We were not planning to become parents yet, but we
were thrilled nonetheless! I had such an easy start to my pregnancy that I didn’t
realize I was pregnant until I was 10 weeks along! I had an incredibly easy
pregnancy, and my partner and I even travelled to England when I was 33 weeks
pregnant (returned at 36 weeks) to visit his family over Christmas 2011. As things were going so well, we were very
excited to deliver our son at home along with our midwife Erin. I was confident
that Henry’s birth was going to be a very peaceful and beautiful experience.
At 38 weeks pregnant, I began to have some incredibly difficult pains. I was reassured that these pains were normal in the later weeks of pregnancy, but I was surprised by how awful I felt. I was cramping a lot, and felt nauseous most of the time. At 39 weeks exactly (Feb 14th), I begged my midwife to do a stretch and sweep (S&S) to encourage labour to begin. I was ready to “get this baby out”! As soon as the S&S was done, I began to feel the beginnings of what would be labour. My midwife was concerned about my Fundal (uterus) height during this visit, so she actually sent me to get an ultrasound. Everything came back normal, including the placenta, so I was sent home and continued to labour at home. Things were progressing well, and by 9pm my midwife arrived. As the pains began to get increasingly worse with no real progression, my midwife suggested that we make the difficult trek to the hospital. It was 3am and I felt defeated and was devastated, but was in no mood to argue. We began to pack a hospital bag in between my contractions, which I now realize should have already been packed just in case!
We arrived at the hospital, and I laboured relatively well for another 3.5 hours. I wanted to have our son naturally, and after pushing for 3 hours, Henry James Machin was born at 10:35am on Feb 15th, 2012. He was born unconscious & was revived by the pediatric nurses after a few tense minutes! My mother, my partner and my very good friend were all present for his birth.
At 38 weeks pregnant, I began to have some incredibly difficult pains. I was reassured that these pains were normal in the later weeks of pregnancy, but I was surprised by how awful I felt. I was cramping a lot, and felt nauseous most of the time. At 39 weeks exactly (Feb 14th), I begged my midwife to do a stretch and sweep (S&S) to encourage labour to begin. I was ready to “get this baby out”! As soon as the S&S was done, I began to feel the beginnings of what would be labour. My midwife was concerned about my Fundal (uterus) height during this visit, so she actually sent me to get an ultrasound. Everything came back normal, including the placenta, so I was sent home and continued to labour at home. Things were progressing well, and by 9pm my midwife arrived. As the pains began to get increasingly worse with no real progression, my midwife suggested that we make the difficult trek to the hospital. It was 3am and I felt defeated and was devastated, but was in no mood to argue. We began to pack a hospital bag in between my contractions, which I now realize should have already been packed just in case!
We arrived at the hospital, and I laboured relatively well for another 3.5 hours. I wanted to have our son naturally, and after pushing for 3 hours, Henry James Machin was born at 10:35am on Feb 15th, 2012. He was born unconscious & was revived by the pediatric nurses after a few tense minutes! My mother, my partner and my very good friend were all present for his birth.
We had decided on
active management of the third stage, so I was given a shot of synthetic
oxytocin after the delivery of my son, to assist with the removal of the
placenta. My midwives waited for about 45 minutes for the placenta to deliver. During
this time, the midwives noticed that I was loosing a little more blood than
normal, but couldn’t tell where it was coming from. One midwife tried to
traction the umbilical cord gently, but this seemed to increase the bleeding.
They encouraged me to squat on the bed and try to push out the placenta, but an
incredible gush of blood came out. The midwives called for an immediate transfer
to an Obstetrical team. Two residents and the Head of Obstetrics were on call. I
was then given a shot of Nitril (to relax the uterus) and Demerol (for pain
relief…not so much!), before both residents and the Head of OB attempted 3
failed manual removals of the placenta. That was the worst pain of my life. I
had lost so much blood by this point that I began to pass out. My midwife tried
to engage me in conversation, but it was almost as if I had forgotten how to
speak. I also have been told that I was as white as a sheet, and the decision
was made to rush me into the OR for an emergency removal of my placenta. I had
started to go into hemorrhagic shock, and could not stop shaking. I remember my
mother running beside the gurney, and I remember saying to her “If I die,
please take care of Henry”. These words still bring tears to my eyes when I
think of them. My blood pressure was called out at 58/30, which is dangerously
low. The last thing I remember in the OR is how tingly my arm felt when they
started my first emergency blood transfusion. I was later told that the Anesthesiologist needed to administer norepinephrine, in
order to regulate my heart pressure as I had severe hypotension (low blood
pressure).
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Recovery Suite |
I woke up in the
recovery room, I believe around 4:30pm. I had been in surgery for about 4
hours. I had been intubated during my surgery and my throat was painfully dry.
I could not sit up, as I would begin to pass out, so I remained flat on my back
for a few hours. This was the first time I was able to spend any time with my
son. He was laid beside me in the hospital bed. At around 10:30pm, my vitals
were stable enough that I could be moved to a regular maternity room.
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Maternity Ward. |
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